75.1 F
Oxford

The Man Who Spent $84,600 Each Day, Went Broke, Yet Lived a Full Life

There are so many inspiring stories out there! As I travel to speak, I love to share with you some of the things I learn out there about people and organizations doing extraordinary things.

Charlie Adams speaking in Mi
Charlie Adams spoke to the Supervisors Dinner for Flexfab.

This past Tuesday in Hastings, MI, I spoke at the Supervisors Dinner for Flexfab, a company that offers an enormous variety of highly engineered elastomeric products.
They were founded by Douglas DeCamp and Bill Pierce in 1961 when they bought a deserted 7,000 sq.ft. store and transformed it. Today, it’s over 150,000 square feet. Five years after their start, they got their first order from Boeing. In 1968 with a Flexfab hose under the hood, Gordon Johncock won the Indianapolis 500.
Today, they continue to do great things around the world, and a big reason is this foundation from DeCamp:
“Value for Customers”
“Quality of Life for Employees”
“Service for Community”
“Benefit for Shareholders.”
The next day, I had the opportunity to stoke the fire within Paragon Medical team members at their Business Development Team annual meeting.
charlie pic2Paragon has been doing remarkable things in the orthopaedic world such as being a supplier of world-class solutions for cases and trays and surgical instruments.
One story I shared was of a boy who had grown up within miles of their meeting. A weak and vision impaired wrestler, he lost all his matches as an 8th grader as he was pinned in every one. He then set short term goals such as to make it 30 seconds before getting pinned, and then a minute, and then a whole match. He eventually became a winning wrestler.
The power of short term goals is amazing!
Almost four years ago, Amber Rosenberry, then 30, was walking through her Philadelphia neighborhood when she tripped and fell into the street, just as a delivery truck was driving by.
The rear wheels crushed her right arm. After all kinds of surgeries, it was encased for months in a metal brace.
These were really hard days for a young woman new to Philadelphia. Her neighbors rallied around her. Local salons took turns washing her hair. A coffee shop would open cans of food for her.
She set goals to motivate herself, small ones at first:
“Write an entire text message with my right hand.”
“Eat a bowl of popcorn with my right hand.”
The last goal: “Finish the Broad Street Run.”
Having never been much of a runner, she set small goals of walking for one minute and then running for one minute. She turned the experience of having experienced so much pain in recent months into a POSITIVE as when running got tough, it wasn’t nearly as tough as the pain she had endured!
charlie pic3Three months later she finished the ten mile Broad Street Run!
As I said, there are ordinary people out there doing extraordinary things!
Thursday saw me share a peak performance and power of attitude message with the Builders Association of Elkhart County. Before speaking, I happened to sit next to a man named Richard Spencer, who was carefully monitoring everything he ate.
He was diagnosed as morbidly obese at 357 pounds 2 years ago. He did roux gastric bypass surgery and since Feb 20, 2013 no sugar has gone in his mouth. His meals are 3 ounces protein, 3 ounces veggie or fruit. He charts everything on his my fitness pal app and exercises 30 minutes every day. His weight is now steady at 197.
He shared the before and after picture with me below.
charlie pic4When I speak, one point I make is that there are inspiring things going on all the time. Because this audience was all connected to the building world, I talked about the most recent issue of TIME Magazine and their extraordinary behind the scenes look at the building of One World Trade Center.in New York City. At 1776 feet, it is the tallest building in the western hemisphere.
charlie pic5As writer Josh Sanburn explains, over 10,000 workers came together to take on the challenge of building something equivalent of five Empire State Buildings while thousands of people were under the work zone each day. Right out of the gate they found remains still missing from the 9/11 attacks, and continued to find wallets, shoes and other things.
Six years after starting, Hurricane Sandy slammed it hard, turning it into a junior Niagara Falls. 125 millions gallons of water flooded what they had built, leading to $185 million in damage. In less than a week, construction was back on.
Through it all, they remained a team, and sometimes roles change on teams. Thomas Hickey, a steel connector, tore a triceps and tenon in his right elbow after slamming his left arm on steel lugs. Since he couldn’t work like he used to, he embraced his new desk job which included getting the 800 pounds of ice each day for the coolers of the workers.
The talk I did for the Builders Association was at a conference center known as The Matterhorn. In 2007 motivational speaker and former Buffalo Bills quarterback Jim Kelly gave a powerful talk there that people still talk about today in Elkhart.
This week Kelly is battling as an aggressive form of oral cancer that has returned after he had previously lost much of his jaw to it.
This is a man who lost his only son in 2005. Hunter Kelly was born with Krabbe disease, an inherited nervous system disorder.
charlie pic6The return of the cancer came so quickly and surprisingly that his wife Jill and oldest daughter Erin were on a trip to Jerusalem with a group from Liberty University where Erin Kelly is enrolled. They rushed back early Friday and over the weekend Erin shared this picture on her Instagram of them watching Syracuse in the NCAA Tourney. Erin wrote: ‘He’s my buddy. Daddy’s girl. Pray for JK. Kellytough.’
Christian Central Academy near Buffalo arranged an all-school prayer for Jim, who led the Bills to four straight Super Bowl appearances years ago.
charlie pic7No matter the outcome, Jim Kelly has made great use out of every second, forming the Hunter’s Hope Foundation and working non stop to raise awareness to Krabbe disease, an inherited nervous system disorder. Jim’s cancer came out of nowhere in his early 50’s.
In each talk this past week, one of the things I emphasized was realizing how special each day is in our lives. Sometimes we get caught up in some much that one day sort of melts into the next. On Friday, a friend of mine who is very much into building and keeping a positive attitude, sent me this remarkable video which can change your life regarding how you look at each part of the day. It is about a man who every morning gets $84,600 and every night he goes broke. There’s an Inspiring reason why:
https://youtu.be/djE6p-A8SlQ
Charlie-Adams-e1380639350131-150x150Charlie Adams is an Oxford native, graduate of Lafayette High School and a member of the Ole Miss Class of 1985. Adams is the author of 4 books on positive attitude and peak performance, including 2013′s “How to Build a Positive Attitude and KEEP the Darn Thing!!” and “Stoke the Fire Within.” His books and motivational keynotes and seminars are designed to make sure events reach their objectives and to help create winning cultures. Email him atCharlie@stokethefirewithin.com.

Most Popular

Recent Comments

scamasdscamith on News Watch Ole Miss
Frances Phillips on A Bigger, Better Student Union
Grace Hudditon on A Bigger, Better Student Union
Millie Johnston on A Bigger, Better Student Union
Binary options + Bitcoin = $ 1643 per week: https://8000-usd-per-day.blogspot.com.tr?b=46 on Beta Upsilon Chi: A Christian Brotherhood
Jay Mitchell on Reflections: The Square
Terry Wilcox SFCV USA RET on Oxford's Five Guys Announces Opening Date
Stephanie on Throwback Summer
organized religion is mans downfall on VP of Palmer Home Devotes Life to Finding Homes for Children
Paige Williams on Boyer: Best 10 Books of 2018
Keith mansel on Cleveland On Medgar Evans
Debbie Nader McManus on Cofield on Oxford — Lest We Forget
Bettye H. Galloway on Galloway: The Last of His Kind
Richard Burns on A William Faulkner Sighting
Bettye H. Galloway on Galloway: Faulkner's Small World
Bettye H Galloway on Galloway: Faulkner's Small World
Bettye H Galloway on Galloway: Faulkner's Small World
Bettye H. Galloway on Galloway: Faulkner's Small World
Ruby Begonia on Family Catching Rebel Fever
Greg Millar on The Hoka
Greg Millar on The Hoka
Greg Millar on The Hoka
Greg Millar on The Hoka
jeff the busy eater on Cooking With Kimme: Baked Brie
Travis Yarborough on Reflections: The Square
BAD TASTE IN MY MOUTH on Oxford is About to Receive a Sweet Treat
baby travel systems australia on Heaton: 8 Southern Ways to Heckle in SEC Baseball
Rajka Radenkovich on Eating Oxford: Restaurant Watch
Richard Burns on Reflections: The Square
Guillermo Perez Arguello on Mississippi Quote Of The Day
A Friend with a Heavy Heart on Remembering Dr. Stacy Davidson
Harold M. "Hal" Frost, Ph.D. on UM Physical Acoustics Research Center Turns 30
Educated Citizen on Buzzed Driving is Drunk Driving
Debbie Crenshaw on Trump’s Tough Road Ahead
Treadway Strickland on Wicker Looks Ahead to New Congress
Tony Ryals on parking
Heather Lee Hitchcock on ‘Pray for Oxford’ by Shane Brown
Heather Lee Hitchcock on ‘Pray for Oxford’ by Shane Brown
Dr Donald and Priscilla Powell on Deadly Plane Crash Leaves Eleven Children Behind
Dr Donald and Priscilla Powell on Deadly Plane Crash Leaves Eleven Children Behind
C. Scott Fischer on I Stand With Coach Hugh Freeze
Sylvia Williams on I Stand With Coach Hugh Freeze
Will Patterson on I Stand With Coach Hugh Freeze
Rick Henderson on I Stand With Coach Hugh Freeze
George L Price on I Stand With Coach Hugh Freeze
on
Morgan Shands on Cleveland: On Ed Reed
Richard McGraw on Cleveland: On Cissye Gallagher
Branan Southerland on Gameday RV Parking at HottyToddy.com
Tom and Randa Baddley on Vassallo: Ole Miss Alum Finds His Niche
26 years and continuously learning on Ole Miss Puts History In Context With Plaque
a Paterson on Beyond Barton v. Barnett
Phil Higginbotham on ‘Unpublished’ by Shane Brown
Bettina Willie@www.yahoo.com.102Martinez St.Batesville,Ms.38606 on Bomb Threat: South Panola High School Evacuated This Morning
Anita M Fellenz, (Emilly Hoffman's CA grandmother on Ole Miss Spirit Groups Rank High in National Finals
Marilyn Moore Hughes on Vassallo: Ole Miss Alum Finds His Niche
Jaqundacotten@gmail williams on HottyToddy Hometown: Hollandale, Mississippi
Finney moore on Can Ole Miss Grow Too Big?
diane faulkner cawlley on Oxford’s Olden Days: Miss Annie’s Yard
Phil Higginbotham on ‘November 24’ by Shane Brown
Maralyn Bullion on Neely-Dorsey: Hog Killing Time
Beth Carr on A Letter To Mom
Becky on A Letter To Mom
Marilyn Tinnnin on A Letter To Mom
Roger ulmer on UM Takes Down State Flag
Chris Pool on UM Takes Down State Flag
TampaRebel on UM Takes Down State Flag
david smith on UM Takes Down State Flag
Boyd Harris on UM Takes Down State Flag
Jim (Herc @ UM) on Cleveland: Fall Vacations
Robert Hollingsworth on Rebels on the Road: Memphis Eateries
David McCullough on Shepard Leaves Ole Miss Football
Gayle G. Henry on Meet Your 2015 Miss Ole Miss
Guillermo F. Perez-Argüello on Neely-Dorsey: Elvis Presley’s Big Homecoming
Jennifer Mooneyham on ESPN: Ole Miss No. 1 in Nation
Wes McIngvale on Ole Miss Defeats Alabama
BARRY MCCAMMON on Ole Miss Defeats Alabama
Laughing out Loud on ESPN: Ole Miss No. 1 in Nation
Dr.Bill Priester on Cleveland: On Bob Priester
A woman who has no WHITE PRIVILEGE on Oxford Removes Mississippi Flag from City Property
A woman who has no WHITE PRIVILEGE on Oxford Removes Mississippi Flag from City Property
paulette holmes langbecker on Cofield on Oxford – Rising Ole Miss Rookie
Ruth Shipp Yarbrough on Cofield on Oxford — Lest We Forget
Karllen Smith on ‘Rilee’ by Shane Brown
Jean Baker Pinion on ‘The Cool Pad’ by Shane Brown
Janet Hollingsworth (Cavanaugh) on John Cofield on Oxford: A Beacon
Proud Mississippi Voter on Gunn Calls for Change in Mississippi Flag
Deloris Brown-Thompson on Bebe’s Letters: A WWII Love Story
Sue Ellen Parker Stubbs on Bebe’s Letters: A WWII Love Story
Tim Heaton on Heaton: Who is Southern?
Tim Heaton on Heaton: Who is Southern?
Karen fowler on Heaton: Who is Southern?
Don't Go to Law School on Four Legal Rebels Rising in the Real World
bernadette on Feeding the Blues
bernadette on Feeding the Blues
Joanne and Mark Wilkinson on Ron Vernon: a Fellowship of Music
Mary Ellen (Dring) Gamble on Ron Vernon: a Fellowship of Music
Cyndy Carroll on Filming it Up in Mississippi
Dottie Dewberry on Top 10 Secret Southern Sayings
Brother Everett Childers on ‘The Shack’ by Shane Brown
Mark McElreath on ‘The Shack’ by Shane Brown
Bill Wilkes, UM '57, '58, '63 on A Letter from Chancellor Dan Jones
Sandra Caffey Neal on Mississippi Has Proud Irish Heritage
Teresa Enyeart, and Terry Enyeat on Death of Ole Miss Grad, U.S. Vet Stuns Rebel Nation
P. D. Fyke on Wells: Steelhead Run
Johnny Neumann on Freeze Staying with Rebels
Maralyn Bullion on On Cooking Southern: Chess Pie
Kaye Bryant on Henry: E. for Congress
charles Eichorn on Hotty Tamales, Gosh Almighty
Jack of All Trades on Roll Over Bear Bryant
w nadler on Roll Over Bear Bryant
Stacey Berryhill on Oxford Man Dies in Crash
John Appleton on Grovin' Gameday Memories
Charlotte Lamb on Grovin' Gameday Memories
Guillermo F. Perez-Argüello on Two True Mississippi Icons
Morgan Williamson on A College Education is a MUST
Morgan Williamson on A College Education is a MUST
Jeanette Berryhill Wells on HottyToddy Hometown: Senatobia, Mississippi
Tire of the same ole news on 3 "Must Eat" Breakfast Spots in Oxford
gonna be a rebelution on Walking Rebel Fans Back Off the Ledge
Nora Jaccaud on Rickshaws in Oxford
Martha Marshall on Educating the Delta — Or Not
Nita McVeigh on 'I'm So Oxford' Goes Viral
Guillermo F. Perez-Argüello on How a Visit to the Magnolia State Can Inspire You
Charlie Fowler Jr. on Prawns? In the Mississippi Delta?
Martha Marshall on A Salute to 37 Years of Sparky
Sylvia Hartness Williams on Oxford Approves Diversity Resolution
Jerry Greenfield on Wine Tip: Problem Corks
Cheryl Obrentz on I Won the Lottery! Now What?
Bnogas on Food for the Soul
Barbeque Memphis on History of Tennessee Barbecue
Josephine Bass on The Delta and the Civil War
Nicolas Morrison on The Walking Man
Pete Williams on Blog: MPACT’s Future
Laurie Triplette on On Cooking Southern: Fall Veggies
Harvey Faust on The Kream Kup of the Krop
StarReb on The Hoka
Scott Whodatty Keetereaux Keet on Hip Hop — Yo or No, What’s Your Call
Johnathan Doeman on Oxford Man Dies in Crash
Andy McWilliams on The Warden & The Chief
Kathryn McElroy on Think Like A Writer
Claire Duff Sullivan on Alert Dogs Give Diabetics Peace of Mind
Jesse Yancy on The Hoka
Jennifer Thompson Walker on Ole Miss, Gameday From The Eyes of a Freshman
HottyToddy.com